Wearing this flowy maxi skirt reminds me to just go with the flow! The feel of this skirt is light, airy, and I can move so easily. This is how I try and maneuver through life and especially since moving to New York. Light and airy and easy going. Once I accepted where I was and what I had, that was when all worries subsided and I felt more full than I ever have. When I made the decision to accept life, good & bad, I was able to navigate through tough situations stronger and wiser without much hurt and pain. I was also able to really appreciate life’s moments during the good times and live in the ‘now’. I am accepting of life and I try to not take life personally. That being said, I am not made of stone. I still get excited, upset, nervous, and anxious, but I too have to remind myself that this moment in time will pass.
Things that may happen in our lives are not necessarily to hurt us. They are to teach us something or show us something. Don’t get me wrong, life is still tough, rough and full of hard decisions to be made. But it is up to you to open your mind so you can fully benefit from life’s lessons. I challenge you to try going through one week where you do not worry about the things happening in your life or that will happen, but rather focus on a plan to work your way out of the spot your in. Focus your energy in a positive direction and that also includes the people you are surrounded by. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you in this mindset change. I hope you try this out and I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic.
Step 1: Acceptance
Step 2: Make a Plan
Step 3: Work that plan
Step 4: Surround yourself with supportive & Positive People/Images
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Finding a fashion gem is hard and rare, and when you do, you must buy! It’s a known rule. I found this gem of a top not too long ago at a vintage store. I immediately fell in love with it not only because it was my favorite color, but it has a collar and is long sleeved. I know, I’m a nerd at heart. I get way too excited over collared shirts. So I bought it and then wasn’t sure when, where or how I wanted to wear it. I finally had the opportunity when going out for a quick WrkItGirl.com meeting. It was a little chilly out and I knew I wanted to wear this shirt. It was cold enough that I needed a jacket so I figured ‘why not wear a jean jacket on top?’ Long story short, I loved this combination and I really wanted to share it with you! Do you ever buy that one piece that you absolutely had to have, but then it takes you a while to figure out how or where you want to wear it? We’d love to hear about your experience!
Wearing: Lanvin Long Sleeve top, Marc Jacobs Jean Jacket, Madewell Jeans, Forever 21 flats, Urban Outfitters sunglasses, vintage scarf
My mood was certainly reflected in today’s outfit and ironically it’s the obligatory NYC All-Black outfit. I must say, I was in a pretty “don’t mess with me attitude” all day. From the time I woke up, until now. I think the NYC vibes are rubbing off on me. Or rather they’re starting to get to me. Everyone in such a hurry to get from here to there and they get upset if you’re not going at their pace. I had someone nearly push me out of the way even though everyone was walking in the same direction. I’m usually a positive person and don’t let things get to me, but a person can be pushed around so much before they finally say “hey enough already!” I am just having a moment and will get over the difference in pace in due time. In the meantime, I just need to put a pep in my step! At least I looked cute. That always makes me feel better.
Wearing: Leather leggings, H&M hat, Vintage Leather Jacket, Black T-shirt, Zara booties
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Ever since moving to NYC, I have never felt more unproductive in my life. Okay…that is such an exaggeration, but I think you might get my flow. Every one is so busy, they’re in such a hurry and just ‘has somewhere to be’. Whereas myself, I am new here, I can count on one hand the amount of people I know/hangout with, and I would like to be one of those people who has somewhere to be, but I just don’t have anywhere to be. I just don’t. I don’t have appointments, I am not heading to the next major audition, etcetera etcetera. What I can say is that I would love to be one of those people with a purpose, or who seem to have a purpose. I feel funny saying this, because my observations are so indicative that “she’s not from around here”, but I can’t help it. I know I’ll get to where I want to be. I’m just super anxious to dive in and get acquainted with you New York. I’ve dreamed of you all my life and I loved you before I even knew you.
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I must say, I am now in love with mixing and matching textures. I always stay in my “safe” zone and only use maybe 2 different textures in all of my looks. This time, I went all out! And I must say, it felt good to be a rebel. I mixed this chunky scarf, with an olive blazer, a lightweight top and leather pants. I think this outfit is perfect for the changing weather here in New York City. What do you think?
The sun is out and I’m jumping for joy! I’m more excited for my skin having the opportunity to see the sun. I am just way too pale. I am almost to the point where I will break down and get a spray tan. Have you tried it before? I’m hearing a lot of great benefits of a spray tan, not to mention you protect you skin by not sun bathing. Maybe I’ll do a spray tan review for you soon! What do you think?
Today I decided on wearing this super comfy and warm sweater since it’s still cold here in New York City. Yes, you heard me right. It’s almost the middle of April and it’s still cold. Since I’m tired of lugging around a bunch of heavy stuffy clothes, I put on my warmest sweater, with this cute jean jacket. In light of it being the spring season, I opted for white everywhere else. Let me be the first to say that if you intend on riding in the subway at all, on any given day in NY, DO NOT WEAR WHITE! I repeat, do not wear white! It’s a disaster waiting to happen. Luckily I was just going in my neighborhood to grab brunch with some of my homegirls.
Today was finally a beautiful day in New York City. The only down side was that it was super windy so it made it feel even colder, but other than that, it was gorgeous! I was able to get in a quick jog in the morning, meet up with 2 friends and even did a little lounging in Central Park. I love days where I have a chance to socialize and also have time to reflect and relax. Life is very busy, and has gotten only busier since moving to New York. I cherish these moments to unwind and enjoy the small things in life.